Tag: life

Debate on Playground Football Restrictions: A Parent’s Perspective

Looking back, going to school was one of the fun times in my life. I say “fun” because, to be honest, studying wasn’t my strong point. I go back to the days when your whole school year depended on an end-of-year exam — and there was my problem.

My daily schoolwork, whilst not amazing, was passable, but if I had to revise for something, I was dead in the water. I couldn’t sit still in a room and study. I was too busy wanting to go and play football. That could have been outside in the street, at school in the playground, or for the school team. In the evenings, I was playing for my youth football team and training with my town team too.

I made my debut for my town team at just 15 years old in the then Isthmian League, playing in front of a few hundred people — and that was a pretty good standard at that time.

So I didn’t have time for Maths, Biology, and French exams. It was football or nothing for me. I remember my French teacher writing in my school report, “When will Richard realise that a laugh and a joke won’t get him through life?”

One of the things I loved at school was the lunchtime break. We used to congregate in the playground, pick two teams, and off we went. Now, I was a goalkeeper, just like my youngest son Jude is now, but there was no way I was playing in goal in the playground. I was running around trying to show my mates how good an outfield player I was.

It was very competitive, of course, and nobody wanted to go back into a double chemistry lesson having been on the losing team. Competitive also meant that every now and again it would get feisty and disagreements would occur. I went to an all-boys school, so the testosterone was flying around, as you can imagine, but it would soon cool down and on we went. Writing this now brings back great memories and, for me, it was all part of growing up.

So imagine my surprise when I read on the front page of one of the Spanish papers here in Mallorca that schools are going to limit the playing of football in the playground due to the conflicts it generates. Are we serious??

I posted this on my Facebook page and it got a huge reaction — most finding it a stupid decision and a few supporting it. In fact, some parents have said that in some schools already kids can only play on certain days. One parent from the UK said it happens at his son’s school. Another parent here says his son comments excitedly every Thursday that it’s his day to play football. Another said her son had said that arguments in the playground happen anyway, not just because of football.

I saw the paper that had written the story had posted it on their Facebook page, and the pile-on from the Spanish was unbelievable. I couldn’t find one person who supported it.

In an official statement issued last Thursday evening, the FFIB (the Balearic Football Federation) expressed its regret that initiatives are being promoted that could limit children’s participation in sports, and pointed out that football is the most popular sport in the Balearic Islands, with a long history and social impact that makes it a key tool for education, coexistence, and the comprehensive development of children and young people.

The Federation emphasised that youth football goes far beyond mere competition. It is, they explain, a learning environment in which values such as respect, teamwork, discipline, equality, effort, and solidarity are transmitted — all of which are essential elements in the personal and social growth of young people. Through clubs and sports schools, thousands of schoolchildren learn to live together, manage their emotions, and face challenges in a regulated and supervised environment.

I couldn’t have put it better myself.

Walking for Pauline: A Son’s Journey of Love, Hope and Determination

Birds of a Feather actress Pauline Quirke MBE was diagnosed with dementia in 2021. Her family, who are unsure what stage she is at, have spoken of the “disbelief” they felt at the time.

I have known Pauline, her husband Steve, and their children Charlie and Emily for a very long time. They used to own a property here in Mallorca, which is when I first interviewed Pauline. That interview sparked a meeting with my wife Rachael, Pauline, Steve and me that led to the opening of the Pauline Quirke Academy here in Mallorca in 2009.

PQA is a performing arts academy for children and young people aged 4–18, offering classes in musical theatre, comedy and drama, and film and television. They have over 200 academies in the UK and here  in Mallorca, it runs every Saturday from 10:00 to 13:00 at Agora School in Portals Nous.

Since Pauline’s diagnosis, the family have been very private, as they did not want any press intrusion. Last month they shared an update on Pauline’s condition, and the news that Charlie will be bringing hope home this Christmas by embarking on a trek in honour of his beloved mum. The trek starts next Monday, the 8th of December, and he will walk 140 km in five days, raising money for Alzheimer’s Research UK.

I interviewed Charlie last week to find out more about it.

RP: Hi Charlie, good to talk to you. I think everybody would like to know: how is your mum?

CQ: Hi mate, thank you for asking. She’s good. You know, she is still, as you know, the funniest woman ever—caring and loving as always. We’re all determined to raise awareness and funds to find a cure for this illness.

RP: Just over 15 years ago, we started the Pauline Quirke Academy here in Mallorca, and it’s been fantastic. The support that we’ve received from both your mum and your dad has been amazing throughout that time. This is a great thing you’re doing, Charlie. When do you actually start?

CQ: Monday, December the 8th. So yeah, it’s a little under two weeks now. It’s come around fast, and I’m walking for five days across five counties, embarking on places that have touched my mum’s life, and our family’s life and history. So starting in Chigwell—the iconic home of Birds of a Feather, of course—then to West Ham’s training ground, through London to Islington, then Windsor where my mum got her MBE, then to the headquarters of PQA, and finally to where we now live.

RP: Five days, 140 kilometres. So it’s more or less 30 kilometres a day. So we’re talking… well, not far off a marathon a day, basically.

CQ: Yes. Maybe I’m not good enough at maths—I didn’t realise how much it was! I think it’s about three and a half marathons in the five days.

RP: Have you been training? I ask because am I right in saying that you are recovering from a broken leg?

CQ: So, in a football match at the end of August, I fractured my tibia and did my MCL. So it’s all been a bit of a mess. I was allowed out yesterday for the first time in four months to walk for about 45 minutes in one go. So I’m aching a little bit now.

RP: You need to make sure you have a good pair of trainers. I think I saw you out in a pair of Adidas the other day?

CQ: I’ve been lucky enough that Alzheimer’s Research UK have got me all kitted out in Adidas. Adidas wanted to come on board and help the cause. So yeah, I’m head to toe in Adidas clobber, and the shoes are actually Alzheimer’s Research UK colours, so that’s a good omen.

RP: Have you got people joining you on the walk?

CQ: Yeah, so they’ve been keeping it a surprise, but I think I’ve got a lot of familiar faces from my mum’s career joining me. Also a lot of my friends that are in the industry. Some actors that my mum’s worked with who can’t make it because of scheduling issues, but who really appreciate and respect my mum, are sending good-luck videos as well.

RP: If people want to donate, what’s the best way to do it?

CQ: The best way is the website, which is trek.charliestrek.org. You can go on there and see all the reasons why I’m doing it, and there’s a nice little handy donation button. Otherwise, you can text CHARLIE20 or CHARLIE10 to 70255.

RP: Right now you are just under £50,000, which is an amazing amount of money.

CQ: I never had a figure in my head. I’m hoping I can get to six figures and that now seems a possibility. That’ll make such a difference for research and for finding a cure. It’s incredible—the amount of money shows the amount of support and love for my mum. It’s such a nice feeling, honestly.

RP: Well, listen mate, we wish you all the luck. Please send our love to your mum, your dad and your sister too.

CQ: Cheers Richie, and thanks for your support.

Christmas is a time when families may notice signs of dementia for the first time—a condition almost one million people in the UK are living with today. Heartbreakingly, there is no cure for the condition—yet.

But Alzheimer’s Research UK exists to change that. With your support, the charity will give families hope by funding the research that will change and save lives. Here in Mallorca and across Spain there are support groups that are listed below. 

  • Age Concern Mallorca: They provide a wide range of support, including advice, help with paperwork, and connecting people with support groups for dementia and Alzheimers.
  • Ceafa: This is part of the Spanish Alzheimer’s network and is active in Mallorca.
  • Fundación Pasqual Maragall: This foundation has a presence in Mallorca, including holding awareness events in Palma. 
  • Age in Spain: Provides information and referrals for dementia care and support services across Spain.

Nearly all of us have family, a friend or someone we know that suffers from this awful illness, I wish Pauline, Steve, Charlie and Emily all our love.